The hugging/venting thread

[topitmunkeydog]

Here (in the US for me too) people say queer a lot just as a neutral description. Nobody says queer pride but nobody uses it as an insult either. Like there is a QSA at my school which actually means queer straigth alliance. that one word that starts with an f and is used mostly by dumb gamers who call each other "n00b" is however considered a rude word here.
In the uk I though people just said queer as in "How queer everything is to-day!" (from Alice in Wonderland.)

[Acsii]

Also queer can be used by people who are Gender neutral. I have a friend who says their gender is queer

[topitmunkeydog]

I thought it just meant "people who aren't straight people," a sort of catch-all option.

[Nine Volt]

I've always heard it used as a derogatory term for homosexuals.

[ExoBassTix]

I've always heard it used as a derogatory term for homosexuals.

this

then again we live in around the same area so it may just be us

Same here, so two different areas.

[vladnuke]

SPORTS VENT: WILL CONTAIN RANDOM SHIT YOU PROBABLY WONT UNDERSTAND AND LOTS OF CURSING

God fucking damnit unfuckingbelievable my fucking home team lost today in the NHL playoffs to the most bullshit fucking refereeing I've seen in fucking ages I can't even fathom what I witnessed it was so biased I want to fucking scream but I can't because my parents are asleep so I rage into my pillow instead AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHFERUEURFUERHFUERUHERHU SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO STOP WATCHING THIS BEER LEAGUE OF A SPORT BUT I CANT BECAUSE I'M IN LOVE WITH IT AND IT'S ONE OF THE THINGS I LOVE IN LIFE BUT GOSH DAMNIT ITS SO FUCKING FRUSTRATING.

FUCK YOU NHL, FUCK YOU REFS, FUCK YOU SHARKS, FUCK ALL OF YOU (@ THE NHL).

/Rage

That's what sports can do to you..

you think you have it tough

soccer fan here

lemme tell you a little something about fouls

LITERALLY ALL THE PEOPLE ON THE OTHER TEAM ARE A BUNCH OF CHEATING, LEG THROWING, THUMB SUCKING LITTLE PUSSIES

AND THEN MY TEAM HAS TO SINK TO THEIR LEVEL JUST TO EVEN THE FIELD

THE SLIGHTEST FUCKING TAP AND THESE LITTLE PIECES OF SHIT CRUMBLE

GODDAMMIT

on a slightly more serious note, i can't seem to find people who'll give me feedback on my songs and that makes me sad because i don't want to release something that's shitty. i can't tell whether the song is bad or not because i spent literaly the last 6 hours working on it and can't tell anymore whether its good or bad because I get too involved in it.

[Ocular]

Fuck Pinnacle Records.

I'm out.

[Mr. Bigglesworth]

I've had my disagreements with them too man.
is this about Bancamp?

Because I'm seriously considering leaving them.

[Ocular]

It's not about bandcamp (although they DID try to sell my song).
They released my song.
Then they said they didn't like it and took it down.
So I messaged them and said "you can take my other song down too, because I quit."

[Ocular]

Hell, the record company is run by a 13 year old. It was a bad idea to trust it in the first place.

[Mr. Bigglesworth]

Really?
Fucking hell that's disgraceful.

[Mr. Bigglesworth]

Although after hearing the owner's music...I can see why he wants some half decent tracks to show off..

[itroitnyah]

God fucking dammit, the save button is so fucking important. I just like a good 3-4 hours on a picture I was working on it photoshop, I tried to undo the history but photoshop fucked the hell up and now I'm back to my last save point. I WAS SO FUCKING CLOSE TO FINISH IT UP AS WELL, GOD FUCKING DAMMIT I REALLY WANT TO PUNCH SOMETHING REALLY HARD

[ghelded_kultz]

Bureaucracies can be so annoying. I've been attached to a job since the beginning of the month and been able to work for almost as long. Yet thanks to new, sudden and unannounced regulations from Washington, I'm stuck not being able to work for at least 2 more works. With no laptop, because I have to return it Wednesday.

[Motivfs]

you think you have it tough

soccer fan here

lemme tell you a little something about fouls

LITERALLY ALL THE PEOPLE ON THE OTHER TEAM ARE A BUNCH OF CHEATING, LEG THROWING, THUMB SUCKING LITTLE PUSSIES

AND THEN MY TEAM HAS TO SINK TO THEIR LEVEL JUST TO EVEN THE FIELD

THE SLIGHTEST FUCKING TAP AND THESE LITTLE PIECES OF SHIT CRUMBLE

GODDAMMIT

on a slightly more serious note, i can't seem to find people who'll give me feedback on my songs and that makes me sad because i don't want to release something that's shitty. i can't tell whether the song is bad or not because i spent literaly the last 6 hours working on it and can't tell anymore whether its good or bad because I get too involved in it.

Oh, I've watched Soccer too and I know exactly what you're talking about, I actually think Soccer has the worst diving in any of the professional sports, hockey being the second, atleast from what I've witnessed. Yeah it's frustrating, because the refs fall for it all the time, giving out penalties if it were hockey, or yellow and red cards if Soccer, it's ridiculous

Also I know how you feel about not getting critique and getting sucked into the idea that your song is gold for the longest time, even though it probably isn't. I've always felt proper feedback is such an important aspect to improving as a musician, and it sucks because I don't get any either. It will give you a reality of what's good, and what needs work. The ear can be real deceiving.

[Mr. Bigglesworth]

I really don't get sports :I

[itroitnyah]

Do you guys want to know what is the stupidest fucking thing you could ever do, and is just too fucking stupid to describe in words? Roleplay clop on the memebase user dashboard. Out of all the many places, chatrooms, forums and other sites on the internet, you would choose memebase to go and seek sexual relief. Like, jesus christ add each other on skype and you both can virtually fuck each others ponysonas all day long, but doing that on memebase is just plain sick, disgusting and rude for everybody. Not only is it the most inappropriate place to do it, but it intrudes on other people who are just browsing memes and pictures on their dashboards, the majority of whom are most likely not cloppers! And the worse part is, the people who were doing it just didn't even care! How much more vile and inconsiderate do you have to be, those guys the the most low people in society that I'm aware of. Lower than conformists even. The whole cheezburger network needs a report button for users like that. They're plenty aware that they can just go to an isolated spot on the internet and do it as much as they want without interference, and the fact that they don't is like walking into a hotel lobby and finding two people having sex right on one of the chairs in the lobby. Those people are filthy and disgusting sexual deviants who embarrass everybody in the hotel and degrade the overall image of the hotel. Before anybody calls me out for being a clopper hater, I don't actually care, it's just where they're doing it that I do care about. The user's name on memebase is ParadoxialEvent, if anybody wants to know

[vladnuke]

Better question: why are you frequenting memebase?

[Motivfs]

Ahahahahahaha I laughed pretty good reading that, amazing analogy by the way, loved it. Yeah.. That's the internet for ya' though.

[itroitnyah]

I don't know, I just do. I just keep it up so that when I take an occasional break, I can just look at some memes on the dashboard, it's small enough that it occupies a small amount of time without really disrupting anything.

[Acsii]

So today I decided to tell a 'friend' of mine about you know... And well he punch me in the face then through me into a wall before walking off saying "Never talk to me again you fucking creep"

[Motivfs]

That's very, very disappointing to hear that someone would do that. I don't get why people have to be such dicks about someones personal decision. It's even more disgusting how he responded to you telling him about your personal choice.

[Acsii]

And the most annoying thing is I thought he was my friend... And even worse is that now he'll go and tell more people and it'll be primary school all over again

[topitmunkeydog]

omg that guy sounds like... not a friend. Why do people have to be like that? Like it's not even about rejecting a decision, they're rejecting who you are! That is just... horrible I don't know even what to say except I hope things get better for you! I hope that you have someone to talk to IRL, but if not please remember that we are all here for you <3

[Acsii]

*sigh* Yea I have actual friends to talk to... and of course I have you guys <3